Brandon Barber Coaching

So I want to give you the keys to not escape.

The keys to not escaping and really turning your dreams into reality:

Here is how you do it.

Step number one: You explore.
Make sure you are exploring. Exploring is this: “Try on your dream”. Yes visualize it, what does it look like? Don’t go there to escape from reality and you’ll know the difference between escaping and exploring because escaping is like you’re prematurely enjoying it. I don’t want you to do that. Don’t prematurely enjoy it. Just think about what it would be like so you can find out if it’s worth your time to do that. Go there and think about whats it going to be like, what’s it going to feel like? Don’t prematurely enjoy it, just try it on and do it as if you say I’m moving toward that. Don’t live in it. This is what it’s going to look like, it’s worth investing my life to do this? That’s why you want to explore it.

Number two: Problem solve:
Comeback in the promise of okay I’ve explored it now what we need to do to make this thing happen? What are some of the problems I need to resolve or take on? Now that I want to do this thing.

Number three: You plan and goal set:
Now we’ll get into that goal setting is certainly not about the outcome. Goal setting is about the activity that you take on to make that happen. It is the daily activities the weekly activities, those are the goals the dreams the outcome. The goals are the day-to-day stuff so goal setting planning and goal setting.

Number four: Rehearse:
Rehearsal is rehearsing like Laura Wilkinson did it with her dives she rehearsed every dive every twist every flop every interest in the water a basketball player rehearses layups a basketball player rehearses free throws a golfer rehearse there shoot there swing and great athletes do it. Why can’t we? You rehearse the activity. What’s the activity? Because here’s the thing what happens when you rehearse your mind thinks you’re actually doing it and if your mind thinks you’re actually doing it lo and behold you get better at the activity and also eliminates a lot of fear because you’re practicing to get better at when its actually time to do the activity, your mind thinks it’s happening. You rehearse the phone calls you rehearse talking to people talking to strangers, whatever it is for you. You rehearse that particular activity that next class that you hold, rehearse the activity. Don’t fantasize about the outcome, in this moment rehearse, the particular activity. Great athletes do that. Why can’t we? You can. What are your daily activities? It’s not as exciting to fantasize about the daily activities. Or rehearse the daily activities as it is to fantasize about the outcomes, “oh what it will be like when”. But it is more empowering.

The last thing you do is ask for inspiration. I don’t know what you call that power that’s greater than you? Some call it I God, some call it the universe, It doesn’t really matter what you call it the same principles apply. Ask for inspiration where should I go what should I do and probably one of the most important questions how can I create value? Abundance; the key to abundance is creating value. That’s it. Creating abundance in other people’s lives creating value for other people. I have not read about or heard about any bar any one individual on this planet or group of individuals who are really successful and have not involve other people or have not brought abundance in some way shape or form to other people. The five steps to not escape and avoid: explore, problem solve, planning and goals set, rehearse and ask for inspiration